After I came out to my mom (Coming Out - Part 1), I knew it was hard for her. All this time I'd had a secret. But I'd opened up and told my mom - and now she had a secret. I knew I had to tell my sister. But I was scared. (Isn't it usually the other way around? Confide in the siblings, then try and find a way to tell your parents?) But my sister was the one person I was most afraid of telling.